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This is my husband's typical day.
get up
get dressed
go to work
come home
get kids in bed

This is my day
get up
let out dog
get son ready
get daughter ready
walk to bus stop
get home
clean as much as I can
drop daughter at sitter
work at home
Help son with homework on break
Do dishes and laundry when off
clean crap that husband let the kids get into

I'm tired and having major anxiety. I'm sick of his tired bullshit. He had to spend 1 day with his daughter and he got pissed cause she wanted his full attention. He is a good husband and father normally, but he wants things the way they were before I started working. Much to my chagrin, I am not a supermom.
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by on Sep. 12, 2012 at 1:36 PM
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by Platinum Member on Sep. 12, 2012 at 4:54 PM

My husband should teach classes... I wouldn't have this happen, because my husband is a rock star.

I get pouty when he leaves on TAD or for deployment, because cleaning the house by myself, and cooking all the meals SUCKS. I married a partner, not a grown man child. I wouldn't be able to deal with it if my husband didn't help.

by on Sep. 12, 2012 at 5:01 PM

I'm sorry. I don't have any other words of comfort hugging

by Sarah on Sep. 12, 2012 at 7:42 PM
What does he say when you tell him how you're feeling or what kind of support you need? Sorry you're having a rough time right now. :-\
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by Sue on Sep. 12, 2012 at 11:51 PM

Awww! Hugs mama!

Sue ~ Head Admin
~ D.V. Survivor/Admin

by Platinum Member on Sep. 13, 2012 at 12:16 AM

sorry hope you get good rest from it all soon

by Inga on Sep. 13, 2012 at 12:20 AM

I think this is the key phrase...

Quoting tifferie:

I moved to a different state and don't have any family here. I just need him to understand.

by on Sep. 13, 2012 at 12:27 AM

Yeah, that's not fair.  :(

by Brian's Lil Vixen on Sep. 13, 2012 at 12:30 AM

Sending HUGS your way.

by Amy on Sep. 13, 2012 at 9:50 AM

Sorry to hear that.  Maybe you need to sit down with him and calmly tellhim how stressed you are about it.  Be very specific in ways he can help.

by Silver Member on Sep. 13, 2012 at 6:21 PM
So we had a chance to talk and I really think he heard me. He came home, kissed me and cut the grass. He even took the kids outside so I could get some alone time. Sucks that it took me freaking out for him to listen.
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