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Peer Mediation @ Work? - UPDATE in Red.

Posted by on Oct. 4, 2012 at 2:13 PM
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Have any of you had to do this? How did it go? Did it end well? Did you have any issues after the fact?

Just curious.

Thanks,
Michelle

Update - The girl got fired. I am shocked and upset by how it all went down, but I need to let meself understand that I didnt cause her to be fired. Its very hard.

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by on Oct. 4, 2012 at 2:13 PM
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proudmommy690
by Christa on Oct. 4, 2012 at 2:16 PM
never heard of it. but i also havent worked in almost 7 years.
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EireLass
by Silver Member on Oct. 4, 2012 at 2:44 PM

Nah. It was much better telling her to fuck off.

MamaJane
by Jane:) on Oct. 4, 2012 at 2:53 PM

 It didn't work when they did it at our church.

Wish2Be
by Michelle on Oct. 4, 2012 at 10:27 PM


Quoting EireLass:

Nah. It was much better telling her to fuck off.

I have been blowing her off for about a year and a half now....seems its not working anymore and I am sick of it.

I told the boss...now I am being forced into peer mediation.

Doesnt matter ...I am putting in my 2 weeks notice tomorrow.

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EireLass
by Silver Member on Oct. 4, 2012 at 10:35 PM

For me it was the boss' wife. He tried to play mediator. I made them aware that while she was there, she was not his wife, but his employee, at the same level that I was. No more, no less. I deserved to be treated with respect, and not be undermined, or treated poorly, just because she has mental issues (per his words). I would not tip-toe around her. If that's what he expected he could take the job and shove it up his ass. Things changed. She backed off. Way off. And it became a better place to work without her interference.

Quoting Wish2Be:
Quoting EireLass:

Nah. It was much better telling her to fuck off.

I have been blowing her off for about a year and a half now....seems its not working anymore and I am sick of it.

I told the boss...now I am being forced into peer mediation.

Doesnt matter ...I am putting in my 2 weeks notice tomorrow.


LifeCafe42
by Nora on Oct. 4, 2012 at 11:03 PM
Yes I had to do mediation with a coworker with our bosses and the union rep. I was being bullied she ended up with a slap on the hand it was bull shit
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Juniper53098
by June on Oct. 4, 2012 at 11:25 PM

no

momofsixangels
by Colleen on Oct. 4, 2012 at 11:33 PM

Didnt even know they did this

Wish2Be
by Michelle on Oct. 5, 2012 at 8:26 AM

 

Quoting LifeCafe42:

Yes I had to do mediation with a coworker with our bosses and the union rep. I was being bullied she ended up with a slap on the hand it was bull shit

 Yeah thats whats happening here.

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Wish2Be
by Michelle on Oct. 5, 2012 at 8:27 AM

 

Quoting momofsixangels:

Didnt even know they did this

 Some companies do and some dont.

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