My kid's father and I have decided, if our baby is a girl that I would nname her and if the baby is a boy, that he would name him. And that is exactly what happened.
DH and I chose together. Both girls have a family name, and a name from Superman.
Hubby picked the first name, i picked the middle...
Son's name was chosen after grandfathers. Daughters name I had already picked out before she was born but mom didn't like Savannah first. So I changed it to Emily Savannah. :) My son's name is William Laurence.
several years before I ever got pregnant I had a dream where I had a daughter named Alyssandra. I had never heard that name before and I just loved it so thats what I named her.