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Smarter Living: Juggling time at holidays

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We've just begun December and I'm already feeling it. It being Holiday Burnout. School fests, office parties, the search (online and off) for gifts, getting that holiday photo taken...all while doing our normal Life Stuff.  Holiday Burn Out, ladies. I bet your kids will start to show signs of it too. But there is a remedy.

Hubbawubba writes: I feel every December we get so busy with people visiting and holiday gatherings, that we don't really have time to connect or recharge or be together and concentrate on what the holidays are all about: family, love, peace.  I'm definitely not feeling peaceful. I'm feeling rushed. I'm trying to cut back on what we do, but that doesn't seem to be working. Any ideas?

When the ho ho ho jolliness turns to a frazzled rush, and you find yourself scurrying around faster than a flying reindeer on Red Bull, it's time to break out the Time Manipulator 2000. What? You don't have one? Right, I don't either. Since we can't alter time (just yet), we have to find ways to seem like we do.

-- Don't pack too much into one day. It's Sunday: you have two holiday parties, a list a mile long of presents to order online, and two dozen holiday cookies to bake for the school bake sale tomorrow. That is too much. Break that list into a few you do each day and set a time limit for how long you spend at each party.

-- Keep it simple. Whether it is buying premade cookie dough (or store-made cookies) or deciding this year, you are just going to get everyone's gift at Barnes and Noble that wraps and ships it for you for free, simplify your tasks.

-- Look at the calendar and block off Nothing Days. At least two or three days, have nothing planned. Even if it means you say no to something, that day of nothing can turn into something pretty special for your impromptu skating trip, a lazy day of watching movies and eating popcorn on the couch and snuggling. 

-- Keep the weekly routine going as much as possible. If you find your family's weekends are jammed with activities and festive functions already, then keep the weekday routine clear and the same ol', same ol'. This helps everyone from feeling the burnout.

How do you juggle the crazy holiday schedule?

© ASergieiev

by on Dec. 3, 2012 at 12:00 AM
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by on Dec. 3, 2012 at 3:52 PM
I try to be stress free. Doesn't always work but I do try.
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by on Dec. 3, 2012 at 5:21 PM
We keep it simple. We don't do very many presents and nothing extravagant.
. We schedule evenings to sit and watch Christmas movies together, make gingerbread houses, days for parades... Fun family stuff :)
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by on Dec. 3, 2012 at 6:13 PM

I don't think it's stressful.

by on Dec. 3, 2012 at 8:15 PM
I usually have all my shopping done before the stores get crazy.
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by on Dec. 3, 2012 at 8:56 PM

I try to have most of my shopping finished by Thanksgiving, and I do 99% of it online, in my pj's. Plan my menus around my schedule for the week, using my crockpot or freezer meals on hectic days.

by on Dec. 3, 2012 at 9:06 PM

Great tips! I usually just do a little bit each day and break it up. My husband and I actually start Christmas shopping in October too. I don't stress about neither. I just want to enjoy the holidays.

by on Dec. 3, 2012 at 9:49 PM
The cozi ap lol
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by on Dec. 4, 2012 at 12:01 AM

this year a cruise, christmas, 5 birthdays, and family

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by on Dec. 4, 2012 at 12:06 AM

Ours is not so bad but we haven't begun to shop yet :)

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by on Dec. 4, 2012 at 12:06 AM

 I try to plan ahead as much as possible.  We have done alot of shopping online this year to cut down on shopping time.

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