Dh and his ways that is.... I am almost at the point where I dont think I can take anymore of him... But I feel like its giving up to easy and I am not sure if its exactly what I want. So with tax season upon us, Dh and I have been talking about what needs to be done with the return. We need a new car, not want, need! However I do not want a car payment, I have my reasoning for it like, he is bad with money and I am afraid it will get repoed. I dont want that on me since he has a DUI and will not be getting the car in his name. We will get a pretty decent return this year and I would like to find a nice car for no more then 5k.... He argues with me that he wants to put 3 or 4 down on a car and make a few payments and that we wont be able to get anything nice under 10k.... We are struggling to make ends meet now, and with me not working, I see no way to get a car with a car payment. I am looking for a job, but we cant struggle even worse until I get one.... I dont know how to really make him see this because he is blinded by his own thinking.... sorry I needed to vent.