The thing that irritates me is she probably thinks we backed into each other. She was out farther (because I stopped when I saw her start to move) so she thinks *I* am the one at fault. I could tell from her body language when she got out and said something to one of the other karate families. Then she looked at her car and said to me "there's no damage," no apology. Why would I care if her car was damaged? I wasn't moving when she hit me!