We bought a fedora for DS9's school program and he hated it, we were going to return it and his brother protested and now wears it.
Today we went for hair cuts ds6 wears his hair longer in a shaggy surfer cut (or lack there of), DS 9 has his hair short in a faux hawk cut.
It has never crossed my mind that I tend to dress ds9 in more of a sporty prep type and ds9 has more of the cute all American surfer boy I guess, lol.
For the most part they wear shorts and tshirts right now.
Do you realize you dress your kids differently. (Prior to the age of their input).