first time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[cditren]

 Okay so someone sends me a friend request here on cafemom, and I accept ... you know the social thing to do. I mean that what most of us are here for.

So do lady then sends me a message asking if I like to spank?

Im like okayyyyyyy, I can take that in a sexual way or as a form of disipline lol

so I said umm I don't usually need to spank my kids they are pretty good about lsitening but there are times that they do need to be spanked, but with moderations no hurting them.

so she tells me she spanks her kids really hard, hits them with brushes and spoons I'm like wtf?

So i ask her why are you bringing this up is that you are out of control? She tells me no Im in control....................

I then stopped chating with her, that was extremely weird or a joke. I don't know am I seeing it wrong?

[DavisMom161008]

It's sickening to read something like that. It is so hard to say but there are rules and regulations to this site and you can report her to the group admins. I know that there are so many people out there too quick to jump to child abuse even when there is none. If she was joking, it's a sick one in my mind.

[cditren]

I agree, I blocked her from my IM, she said hello after a few weeks of me not being online and I said hello via IM and I asked if she was feeling better and less stressed and she said no and brought up the same thing, she asks me again if i spank me kids and went again to tell me she hits her kids with brushes etc. At this point I don't know if she's a psycho or what. SHe stated she lives in Italy. It's even scary to speak to people like that, I don't know if she's for real or is just messing with me.