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my husband cheated ...........

Posted by on Dec. 9, 2010 at 5:16 AM
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Some background.  Sunday my husband started talking to a highschool friend IMing her on FB.  The content got a little racey (he was reading it to me) and I made the comment talk to her all you want on FB but I dont feel comfortable with you meeting her any where.

Yesterday he sends me a text saying he is going to meet the guys on Wednesday.  NP, told him have fun.  We have had previous arguments about him going out with the guys and not making time for me so I went out of my way this time to be supportive.

Well tonight I was on ebay and it had accidentally logged me in under my DH.  I didnt notice it until I had bought something for him as a gift.  So I went into his e mail yo get the notices before he saw them.

In there I saw a message notification from this lady. I was curious about her because he went on and on about how alike we are and how much I would like her.

The message said "loved hearing about what you would do to me cant wait to fuck you on wednesday." So I looked at others that were calling me a bitch.

So I call him and ask who the hell Cori is and is he going to enjoy fucking her.

He came right home and claims after she sent that message he told her that is not why he wants to meet her.  He wants to meet her to talk about our marriage and if parts of it are normal.


So what to believe?

by on Dec. 9, 2010 at 5:16 AM
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lizmarie1975
by Liz on Dec. 9, 2010 at 6:32 AM

Why would he want to meet up with her and discuss his marriage to you with her?  What about her qualifies her to say whether your marriage is normal?  That makes no sense.

Did he tell her that he wants to have sex with her? I guess even if it was just talk I wouldn't be comfortable with that.

Wyldbutterfly
by Snow Bunny on Dec. 9, 2010 at 7:15 AM

OH HELL NO! I'm sorry but he has crossed the line and in a big way.

You two need to discuss your marriage. Not him and her. She has absolutely no business speaking to your husband IMO.

If he feels as though he needs to talk to someone, go to counseling!

lady-J-Rock
by Niki on Dec. 9, 2010 at 7:57 AM

Oh no. Im with Liz and Wyld. Nothing good is coming from him meeting and talking to her.

elwalters77
by Erica on Dec. 9, 2010 at 8:53 AM

Not cool

tiredgranny521
by Silver Member on Dec. 9, 2010 at 10:35 AM

Unless she is a licensed marriage counselor, he has no business meeting her to discuss anything. Tell him you think all three of you should meet so you can tell both of them what asses they are. Anyone who says FB "hook ups" are not cheating is totally wrong. I'd like to know who sought out who first.

remaining_me
by Kay on Dec. 9, 2010 at 11:18 AM

Wow. He is bullshitting you and doing an extremely terrible job at it. Sry to be so frank, but he's an asshole and you guys have some major repairs to do if this one's going to sort out. What to believe? Definitely not anything coming out of his mouth.

nanalyn1
by on Dec. 9, 2010 at 11:34 AM

Sorry, but if he was mine .....he wouldn't even be  talking on Facebook to her...if he wants to talk to someone talk to u....and WHY would he want to talk to her about your marriage??????  

Spawn_Love
by New Member on Dec. 9, 2010 at 11:38 AM

I have been in your position before. My husband never slept with either of them (yes, there were 2 incidents) but he crossed a line in a huge way. Don't buy into his line of bullshit. He has already broken your trust by talking shit about you behind your back, to another woman who he knows wants to fuck him.

I would tell him It's over if he meets with this woman. This is bullshit.

SamMom912
by Platinum Member on Dec. 9, 2010 at 11:39 AM

HOLY F'IN SHIT! I would FREAK!!!!
In todays day and age where he could easily bring home something to you (herpes,aids, crabs) WTF would he even JOKE about that.  That is SO DISRESPECTFUL!!!
I would DEMAND he stop chatting- hand over his freakin phone every time to rings and have him see a counselor-- alone and with you.  WTF! He made a committment to you and your family-- scary that it is soooo easily dismissed!!! Talking to her about YOUR marriage and YOUR PRIVATE affairs... INTOLERABLE!!!! ???!!!!!!
I would put him on such a short leash... if he chooses to choke himself-- his loss!!!!
YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE THIS!!!

Mom2Jack04
by Melissa on Dec. 9, 2010 at 12:56 PM


Quoting remaining_me:

Wow. He is bullshitting you and doing an extremely terrible job at it. Sry to be so frank, but he's an asshole and you guys have some major repairs to do if this one's going to sort out. What to believe? Definitely not anything coming out of his mouth.

DITTO!!!!!

My ex was a confirmed sex and porn addict and most of his addiction took place online.  I couldn't trust a single word.  Now he's moved back home to his parents because he did the same to his girlfriend and she kicked him out.  Men like that don't change.  If it's not this girl it'll be or has been someone else.

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