That is the question, my mil now wants to work through things. She sent me a message on facebook apologizing for her actions and would like to work through things. She wants to be a part of the kids life. She knows she messed up. She wants to change things before it's too late.
A part of me feels like too bad soo sad for you
she called dh's phone and asked to speak with me. we talked. she didn't realize what she was doing until another person told her she's a dang hypocrite and needs to do some serious soul searching, talking about how great your oldest son is and your beautiful grandkids that you never see or speak to. Mil is always complaining about her other son not calling his son, not caring enough to visit or call. just simple phone call to make the kid feel loved and cared for. I don't know where he learned it from. smdh. I did agree to start over again but she has to call or write once a month. She has to treat all of the kids fairly. I won't say the exact same because they're very different kids. Dh says he is hopeful that she has changed but not countingcounting on it.