So this is the odd part: my dh learned today that he is one of the 4% of men in the world who can not have a vasectomy. Something to do with the length of the vas deferens, position of scrotum...I don't know...so weird. Anyway, so we will be getting a second opinion, but should he truly be unable to have one, I was wondering if any of you have had a form of permanent birth control done on yourself? Tubal ligation? Essure? I realize that I can google this information, but I'm always wary to do that because people with perfectly good experiences aren't usually compelled to write about it online and I feel that you end up reading a disproportionate amount of negative experiences. I don't think I know anyone in real life who's had either procedure, at least not recently, so I thought I might ask here about your experiences.
Thanks in advance!