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Can't decide if this is good or bad. TMI, sorry.

Posted by on Apr. 23, 2011 at 4:43 PM
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For the past three days I've had monster back pain. Got up this morning and when I went to the bathroom, noticed I was passing large blood clots. Went to the doctor and they confirmed an early stage miscarriage, maybe three or four weeks along. I didn't know I was pregnant. Kinda sad about it.
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Jamie0908
by on Apr. 23, 2011 at 4:47 PM
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asaffell
by on Apr. 23, 2011 at 4:52 PM

I am so sorry mama. Big hugs and prayers for comfort.

sophiemross
by on Apr. 23, 2011 at 4:52 PM
I'm really bummed. The doc said that sometimes an embryo will self-abort when it's malformed, but it's not making me feel any less sad about it. We weren't really trying for another, but it would have been welcomed.
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Kelly.Marie.105
by on Apr. 23, 2011 at 4:53 PM

I'm so sorry. =(

hugs

sophiemross
by on Apr. 23, 2011 at 4:54 PM
Thanks :) I don't know why but I feel sort of guilty for not knowing, even though it was so early. I guess just the fact that it was there and gone without my knowing.
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Zuryplus3
by on Apr. 23, 2011 at 4:55 PM

HUGS

asaffell
by on Apr. 23, 2011 at 4:57 PM

I always find those comments really insensitive when a mom is mourning.

Take time to grieve your loss if you need to mama.

Quoting sophiemross:

I'm really bummed. The doc said that sometimes an embryo will self-abort when it's malformed, but it's not making me feel any less sad about it. We weren't really trying for another, but it would have been welcomed.



sophiemross
by on Apr. 23, 2011 at 5:05 PM
Yeah, it didn't really help although I know he meant well. I can't really get my head around the fact that it still very early and very small. All I can think is that I lost a baby, you know?


Quoting asaffell:

I always find those comments really insensitive when a mom is mourning.

Take time to grieve your loss if you need to mama.


Quoting sophiemross:

I'm really bummed. The doc said that sometimes an embryo will self-abort when it's malformed, but it's not making me feel any less sad about it. We weren't really trying for another, but it would have been welcomed.



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seraphimsong
by on Apr. 23, 2011 at 5:09 PM
I'm sorry :( I would feel the same way as you.
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stretchswife
by on Apr. 23, 2011 at 5:09 PM

((((HUGS))))) 

 

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