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turn off or no big deal?

Posted by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 7:14 PM
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When you meet someone and then find out they are the wife that likes to "give the command a piece of her mind" because their husband couldn't get off for something or come home by a certain time?


For me, its a turn off.. It's hard to be friends with someone who has no respect for their husbands job/boss (not saying all bosses deserve it, but the husbands at least do.)

Posted by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 7:14 PM
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chrlstoncharmed
by Melissa on Feb. 14, 2012 at 7:22 PM
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Turn off. Anyone with an entitlement attitude is a turn off.  

shesliketx
by Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 7:29 PM
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Turn off. I'm not my husbands keeper. His job is not my job. I'm not entitled to anything and neither is anyone else.

(though there are times I have a lot of words for the command, I'd never go tell them.)
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Maddies_mom101
by Erin on Feb. 14, 2012 at 7:33 PM
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turn off....  becuase you know in the end she is one that likes to cause problems in the command and why would you want to be associated with someone like that

Soniam301
by Sonia on Feb. 14, 2012 at 7:39 PM
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I don't hang out with anyone in my husbands command. I just can't do it! I've tried, but my husband likes to keep work and friends seperate, so that makes it hard to make friends with the wives when he doesn't really care to hang out with the husbands. Not that they are bad people or anything. Pretty much all our friends are military, just not in the same command.

jenkybrie
by Jennifer on Feb. 14, 2012 at 7:48 PM
I know 0 wives in my husbands unit! But yes it would be a turn off. Like you, my husband likes to keep work and friends seperate.
tth328
by Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 7:52 PM
Turn off. His boss ultimately will have a lot to say on how his career and or tour will go. So pissing off a boss is never a good idea.
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usmclife58
by Nikki on Feb. 14, 2012 at 7:56 PM

HUGE turn off. 

LOswald0314
by Lindsey on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:04 PM
Turn off!
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NutHouseMomma
by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:06 PM


Quoting chrlstoncharmed:

Turn off. Anyone with an entitlement attitude is a turn off.  

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MrsBoats08
by Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 8:07 PM

TURN OFF!! I had a friend that would complain if her dh worked past 4pm, had duty, or went underway in general. However she didn't complain once during the 7 mos deployment!!

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