So I'm not really the jealous type. But yesterday I was messing around with our iPad that my DH got for both of us for Christmas... I got on the calendar and was flipping through and tell me why only two dates had anything on them... His dentist appointment in August and his exwife's birthday in June... Why does her birthday need to be there? Why does he even need to remember it? They supposedly don't talk, they don't have any children together, so why is her birthday marked on OUR iPad that we just got two months before we got married. I would understand if he had it before we got together... But he bought is specifically for US. And he didn't put my birthday or the girls' birthdays or his parents... Just hers.... Do I ask him about it? I generally tend to trust him, but I really don't see why her birthday is important enough to be in our iPad. If I do ask him about it, is there a better time than others? This is my first deployment as a wife, so I am not sure on protocol on asking your DH about something that could potentially turn into a fight. Although we don't usually fight, we state how we feel, we both apologize for stepping on the others toes, and for any feeling we may have hurt, and we make up. But that's when he was home and we could kiss and make up.
on May. 7, 2012 at 8:17 AM