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News has it that Nadya Suleman has made an adult video, scheduled to be released next month. 

What do you think of her choice of turning to pornography in order to pay the bills? Is she trying to ride the fame wagon a little longer or is she truly doing what she has to do? 

by on May. 10, 2012 at 12:03 PM
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vanessa5470
by on May. 10, 2012 at 1:33 PM

Geez......what kind of sick world do we live in where a woman has to succumb to being f*cked and videotaped in order to feed her kids?

4ever-SJ
by Gold Member on May. 10, 2012 at 1:36 PM
I don't think anyone is forcing her to do it.

Also, a lot of people make a living through adult entertainment.


Quoting vanessa5470:

Geez......what kind of sick world do we live in where a woman has to succumb to being f*cked and videotaped in order to feed her kids?


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chrlstoncharmed
by Melissa on May. 10, 2012 at 1:38 PM

I don't know if it makes it any better, in your opinion, but she is solo in the video.

Quoting vanessa5470:

Geez......what kind of sick world do we live in where a woman has to succumb to being f*cked and videotaped in order to feed her kids?


violinjewel
by Julia on May. 10, 2012 at 1:45 PM
Yea, I don't think it was forced upon her. She's an adult, who can make her own choices.


Quoting vanessa5470:

Geez......what kind of sick world do we live in where a woman has to succumb to being f*cked and videotaped in order to feed her kids?


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vanessa5470
by on May. 10, 2012 at 1:50 PM

Of course it's their choice...but it's just so damn depressing and sad to me. Fingering yourself for the world to see? So some sleazy dudes can jack off to ya? What would be the difference between this and prostitution? Unless it's deemed ok to be a prostitute nowadays, haven't gotten the memo.

If she were my mom, I would be embarrassed really. There are TONS of resources out there for women and low income families, so resorting to doing porn is such an easy way out.

I dunno, porn to me is just so fake and ridiculous.

 

barrelracer1699
by Chel on May. 10, 2012 at 1:52 PM

I don't know what to think of her.

4ever-SJ
by Gold Member on May. 10, 2012 at 2:50 PM
Some women find it empowering and many women watch it - so, men aren't the only ones enjoying it.


Quoting vanessa5470:

Of course it's their choice...but it's just so damn depressing and sad to me. Fingering yourself for the world to see? So some sleazy dudes can jack off to ya? What would be the difference between this and prostitution? Unless it's deemed ok to be a prostitute nowadays, haven't gotten the memo.


If she were my mom, I would be embarrassed really. There are TONS of resources out there for women and low income families, so resorting to doing porn is such an easy way out.


I dunno, porn to me is just so fake and ridiculous.


 


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anchorgurl
by Silver Member on May. 10, 2012 at 2:57 PM

I don't know...this might make it even more disgusting.  I don't have a problem with porn....it's just her + the porn = puke-worthy.  Might be better if there was a man in it.

Quoting chrlstoncharmed:

I don't know if it makes it any better, in your opinion, but she is solo in the video.

Quoting vanessa5470:

Geez......what kind of sick world do we live in where a woman has to succumb to being f*cked and videotaped in order to feed her kids?



vanessa5470
by on May. 10, 2012 at 4:39 PM
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Quoting 4ever-SJ:


Good for them.

Point being, sticking a finger in your cooch to feel empowered/hustle/stickittotheman/female rights/void gender stereotyping/whatever other reason people bust out with JUST to buy diapers for you kids and pay your bills is sad to ME.

I've worked with immigrant families, families who don't know the goddamn language, don't have ANYYYYYYYYY worldly possessions including mothers with 4+ kids (not as many as the octo). These people have NEVER even thought of doing what Octo is supposedly doing. They're cleaning toilets, cooking in your beloved restaurants, doing your nails, building your houses, taking care of children and WORKING, not showing their vagina to the world, to pay their bills and feed their children

My own freaking mother came this country with NOTHING. Didn't know a LICK of English and found herself working in a clothing factory in NY. Did she become a porn star, stripper, w/e because there were SEEMINGLY no other outlets for basic needs? No. She learned the language, went to school, busted her ass working during the day and school at night with child, luckily met other women in the same situation and they helped each other out. At 55, she holds her MA and has taught in the public school system for over 25 years.

The world needs more women to feel empowered by amounting to something POSITIVE.

I look at my 7 month old daughter and just think....do I want her to feel empowered by riding some shitbag she met 5 minutes before on a sleazy porn shoot??? Do I want her to film a video on her webcam of her masturbating and posting it online to feel EMPOWERED? If she's having trouble financially I'd hope she will be smart enough to put herself to WORK by doing something honest. I'd feel like a failure, as a mother, as a woman, as a role model. Volunteer for fundraisers, help a person in need, become a CEO of your own company, there are millionssss of other things that the world needs besides a vagina getting f*cked. With the way everything is nowadays where asshats get famous for making sex tapes, I'm sure we'll be seeing cartoons jizzing and gang banging each other as a recreational sport.


Every person on this Earth has the power to do better, to strive and make a positive impact on society. Doing what you have to do OUT OF NECESSITY does and should not mean you have to resort to pornography or any other bs.

Sorry for the rant, this subject is one that really gets to me.
USMCwife0530
by on May. 10, 2012 at 5:51 PM
I agree.


Quoting vanessa5470:

Quoting 4ever-SJ:




Good for them.



Point being, sticking a finger in your cooch to feel empowered/hustle/stickittotheman/female rights/void gender stereotyping/whatever other reason people bust out with JUST to buy diapers for you kids and pay your bills is sad to ME.



I've worked with immigrant families, families who don't know the goddamn language, don't have ANYYYYYYYYY worldly possessions including mothers with 4+ kids (not as many as the octo). These people have NEVER even thought of doing what Octo is supposedly doing. They're cleaning toilets, cooking in your beloved restaurants, doing your nails, building your houses, taking care of children and WORKING, not showing their vagina to the world, to pay their bills and feed their children



My own freaking mother came this country with NOTHING. Didn't know a LICK of English and found herself working in a clothing factory in NY. Did she become a porn star, stripper, w/e because there were SEEMINGLY no other outlets for basic needs? No. She learned the language, went to school, busted her ass working during the day and school at night with child, luckily met other women in the same situation and they helped each other out. At 55, she holds her MA and has taught in the public school system for over 25 years.



The world needs more women to feel empowered by amounting to something POSITIVE.



I look at my 7 month old daughter and just think....do I want her to feel empowered by riding some shitbag she met 5 minutes before on a sleazy porn shoot??? Do I want her to film a video on her webcam of her masturbating and posting it online to feel EMPOWERED? If she's having trouble financially I'd hope she will be smart enough to put herself to WORK by doing something honest. I'd feel like a failure, as a mother, as a woman, as a role model. Volunteer for fundraisers, help a person in need, become a CEO of your own company, there are millionssss of other things that the world needs besides a vagina getting f*cked. With the way everything is nowadays where asshats get famous for making sex tapes, I'm sure we'll be seeing cartoons jizzing and gang banging each other as a recreational sport.





Every person on this Earth has the power to do better, to strive and make a positive impact on society. Doing what you have to do OUT OF NECESSITY does and should not mean you have to resort to pornography or any other bs.



Sorry for the rant, this subject is one that really gets to me.

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