I know there are some old timers in here, so let me run this by you ...
DH has become increasingly frustrated with work. So much so, that he's coming home angry and frazzled. We talked about it and it seems that he's thrown in the towel. Where he once used to make great efforts in helping to shape our future military leaders, he now feels defeated and hopeless.
He said that never in his life has he encountered so much stupidity, laziness, complacency, self-entitlement, disorganization, lack of communication and disregard for team development. He also said that so many of the soldiers he encounters (both peers and students) have their personal lives so incredibly fucked up, it's nearly impossible for them to put mission first ... too much time, money and resources are being invested into these soldiers and consequently, their focus and direction isn't where it should be.
How do your husbands feel about the "new" military? Do they have similar frustrations?