Today my husband informed me that if I don't start having sex with him again that he "can't keep going on like this." I'm not really sure what he means by that, but I have no libido and I refuse to force myself to do something I don't want to do or won't enjoy.
So I guess my question is, what am I entitled to if we separate or end up divorcing? We just bought a house but the mortgage is in his name, we only have one vehicle, and 2 kids.
I just want to be prepared. Thanks.
ETA: I was fairly vague in things yesterday, but upon talking with a good friend and researching through ACS/Milonesource pages, I realize I have been psychologically abused for the better part of our marriage. I have been put down continuously, my self esteem is at an all time low, I am isolated from my family even though we are 3 hrs away. He has the ability to become very violent against me.... It is a cycle pattern, we did buy a home and instead of insisting upon renting like I wanted to do, I just shoved everything aside because I am scared. I have no family that is able to help me, and my friends arent in a spot where they can either. I have no job, no way of getting a job, and while I do have access to the bank accounts, they are both in his name. I have no idea who his COC is currently, since we just moved and I havent had a reason to get the information. I am going and speaking with the victim advocate at acs tomorrow simply to figure out what I can do to help myself and my children get out of the situation. Thank you for the helpful comments.