My son texts me to tell me he's angry at his girlfriend because she deleted phone numbers out of his cell phone because she didn't like those people (saying smarmy, cause that's how she is.) I didn't ask to be involved, he involved me. She is OLDER than him, isn't what she did like 9th grade BS? I called him and flat out asked him if he really wanted to go to Korea for a year and come back to that. He said he didn't know. I told him I loved him and that was the end of the convo.