Do you ever ask for help with things when your dh is gone (deployment, TDY, training, etc)? Is it hard for you to ask for help?
I hate asking for help, but sometimes I have to. It is usually for little things that people don't have a problem with, I just don't like feeling like I have put anyone out. I had to ask my son's soccer coach to get him to and from a game last week because my older dd had a game at the same time, different field. I have to ask my dd's soccer coach to get her to a game this week for the very same reason. I had to ask my friend to give my son a ride home from the lake, she was already there and lives a block from me, but I didn't want to ask. My dh arranged with our next door neighbor to mow our yard while he is gone, so I don't have to do it myself or ask my neighbor to do it (we have a small yard .10 acre, LOL). It is just little stuff like that.