Yes I deleted the other post, I put a bit more than I wanted so decided to delete. But I want to think you all for your thoughts and suggestions. I did talk to him when he got home. He decided that he needed to talk to our MSG friend. He really reassured him and calmed everything down. Basically said that what his 1st SGT is saying is a bunch of BS and he can't do anything. Said that 1SGT can't take away Germany that branch gave him. Thanks again! Love having somewhere I can go and vent and have others kind of understand.