So hubbs is in Afghanistan right now, and has always had his own room, until a few days ago that is. I guess they were short in the mass tents and had to put personnel in with people that normally have their own room. No problem, it's for a short time. Except... There was/ is a huge problem. They have bunk beds in there and my hubbs sleeps on the bottom. The second night this guy was in there my husband woke to the bed rocking and the dude moaning. Ya... Exactly what you think. I wanted to puke. I could get more graphic and tell you exactly what my hubby said, but I'll spare you the disgusting details. My husband wanted to jump up and beat the ever lovin crap out of this guy, but didn't. It has happened 3 times now in the 4 days this guy has been in his room. My husband is at a loss at how to handle this situation short of pummeling the guy and I have no clue what to say. I realize these guys are away from home and lonely, with needs, but SERIOUSLY?!? Ughhhhhhhhh! So my question is, what would you do yourself, and what advice would you give your husband? I assure you this is NOT a spam post. I am dead serious. My fear is my husband will loose it and beat the crap out of this guy. Not that I could blame him, but not the best choice... thoughts? THANKS!
So it happened again and hubbs had, had it... He just said "Dude SERIOUSLY!?! Think you can go to the bathroom for that shit? I am tryin to sleep man! " Unfortunatley unlike most of you thought , this guy was not at all embarrassed and told my hubbs to get over it, we all have needs. My dh was so pissed he ripped off the covers and told him to get the f out. I guess he made an impression because the guy left and when he came back my hubbs said, " we aren't going to have this problem again, are we? " The other guy shrugged and said I'll only be here a few more days. Not sure what that meant but for his sake I sure hope that means he will refrain from being a giant douche bag.
on Aug. 10, 2012 at 3:42 AM