OK... This is beyond gross, but I know you ladies will have some advice.
So hubbs is in Afghanistan right now, and has always had his own room, until a few days ago that is. I guess they were short in the mass tents and had to put personnel in with people that normally have their own room. No problem, it's for a short time. Except... There was/ is a huge problem. They have bunk beds in there and my hubbs sleeps on the bottom. The second night this guy was in there my husband woke to the bed rocking and the dude moaning. Ya... Exactly what you think. I wanted to puke. I could get more graphic and tell you exactly what my hubby said, but I'll spare you the disgusting details. My husband wanted to jump up and beat the ever lovin crap out of this guy, but didn't. It has happened 3 times now in the 4 days this guy has been in his room. My husband is at a loss at how to handle this situation short of pummeling the guy and I have no clue what to say. I realize these guys are away from home and lonely, with needs, but SERIOUSLY?!? Ughhhhhhhhh! So my question is, what would you do yourself, and what advice would you give your husband? I assure you this is NOT a spam post. I am dead serious. My fear is my husband will loose it and beat the crap out of this guy. Not that I could blame him, but not the best choice... thoughts? THANKS!
****UPDATE******
So it happened again and hubbs had, had it... He just said "Dude SERIOUSLY!?! Think you can go to the bathroom for that shit? I am tryin to sleep man! " Unfortunatley unlike most of you thought , this guy was not at all embarrassed and told my hubbs to get over it, we all have needs. My dh was so pissed he ripped off the covers and told him to get the f out. I guess he made an impression because the guy left and when he came back my hubbs said, " we aren't going to have this problem again, are we? " The other guy shrugged and said I'll only be here a few more days. Not sure what that meant but for his sake I sure hope that means he will refrain from being a giant douche bag.
****UPDATE******
So it happened again and hubbs had, had it... He just said "Dude SERIOUSLY!?! Think you can go to the bathroom for that shit? I am tryin to sleep man! " Unfortunatley unlike most of you thought , this guy was not at all embarrassed and told my hubbs to get over it, we all have needs. My dh was so pissed he ripped off the covers and told him to get the f out. I guess he made an impression because the guy left and when he came back my hubbs said, " we aren't going to have this problem again, are we? " The other guy shrugged and said I'll only be here a few more days. Not sure what that meant but for his sake I sure hope that means he will refrain from being a giant douche bag.
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on Aug. 10, 2012 at 4:24 AM
Getting ready to FaceTime with hubbs. I will read him all of this and see what happens. Who knows ? The dude may have been at it again last night and he finally said something. I guess we'll see. Lol Thank God this guy will be out of his room soon! Lol ;-) I'll let ya know what happens. Thanks for the advice. ;-)
Omg so when I first read that I thought you said "my guy is into..."
And I wrote out a whole reply on what a perv your husband must be...once I hit add I re read your reply and realized I was wrong...
Haha sorry! I'm sure your husband is not a perv, but that dude sure is! Especially of he's actually in to that.
I bet he thinks he's being sneaky.
And I wrote out a whole reply on what a perv your husband must be...once I hit add I re read your reply and realized I was wrong...
Haha sorry! I'm sure your husband is not a perv, but that dude sure is! Especially of he's actually in to that.
I bet he thinks he's being sneaky.
Quoting cocoroo:
Maybe the guy is into having people listen and/or watch, LOL.
Quoting Megankae:
Tell him to go to the damn bathroom.
Who is comfortable doing that with some one else in the room.
Ewew
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on Aug. 10, 2012 at 8:02 AM
Yeah, I don't understand why him saying "dude, fucking stop or go to the bathroom" is such a big deal. Its not sitting down and having a heart to heart on how other guy jacking off is disruptive.
Lmao, my dh would make fun of this guy to no end until he stopped, and then some.
Lmao, my dh would make fun of this guy to no end until he stopped, and then some.
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on Aug. 10, 2012 at 8:08 AM
Tell him to stop or they will bring out them salt shots ;)
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on Aug. 10, 2012 at 8:19 AM
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If it happened to my husband he'd tell the guy to knock it the fuck off.
If it happened to ME, I have inappropriate reactions to things, I would start laughing my fool fucking head off. Who does that with people in the room? I know people do it, but if you're rocking a solo performance, you need to be SOLO.
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on Aug. 10, 2012 at 8:22 AM
This exactly.
Quoting mom2jessnky:If it happened to my husband he'd tell the guy to knock it the fuck off.
If it happened to ME, I have inappropriate reactions to things, I would start laughing my fool fucking head off. Who does that with people in the room? I know people do it, but if you're rocking a solo performance, you need to be SOLO.
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on Aug. 10, 2012 at 8:28 AM
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Is he 12? Seriously? He has a problem with it - man up and SAY SOMETHING... It's not rocket science... Why the f would someone involve command over this? That's just stupid.
And so is not saying anything. Say something to the guy or don't complain about it. Easy peasy...
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The bad phone call..
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on Aug. 10, 2012 at 3:42 AM