Find yourself not commenting on a post because people will bitch about your response? Not because it is mean, but because it is honest and you just don't want to deal with the whining? Today I found myself doing that quite often. My restraint has been quite admirable.
“Here a question arises: whether it is better to be loved than feared,
or the reverse. The answer is, of course, that it would be best to be
both loved and feared. But since the two rarely come together, anyone
compelled to choose will find greater security in being feared than in