My husband just made Cheif (yyaaahhh him!!) And as always I am right there to help in anyway I can. I kind of feel as though some people dont like my overly support. I mean, I allow jr sailors to come for dinner, I am always willing to cook for any function. I don't mind. But I feel as a wife it is my job. Just as he has always supported me. I just want to know what do you ladies think about how supportive we should be as wives...... Any comments??????