My husband is deploying soon and his family wants to come up right before he deploys. They are coming up next weekend, and we are spending Thanksgiving with them. He is unable to take leave for Xmas due to the deployment and he's leaving shortly after. Is it wrong for me to want to spend the last few weeks with him before he leaves as a family? Am I being selfish? He doesn't want his parents to come either but he doesn't want to be rude. Anyone else have the same issue? I feel I want to be selfish of his time left in the states.
on Oct. 8, 2012 at 12:20 PM