I realize there are couples with different lifestyles or views where porn is acceptable and comfortable in the marriage.
My husband has been addicted to it for a while and all of the deployments do NOT help.
I realize some men or women can look and still want their SO. Not mine. He has become desensitized to sex wih me. He still gets a hard on and all of that good stuff but the passion is lacking. He loves me, does not physically cheat on me, is a good provider and dad, but there is nothing lately. The past two years have been void of passion. Only French kiss when we are doing it. Never compliments me. I would think he had a lover but he never leaves tje house, but when he comes home from work he tunes out. I can't remember the last time we had a talk about anything other than bills or the kids. I try to be fun with him bit he would rather watch tv. Always.
We signed up for counselig and he has found excuses. We have to move to another state in 6 months and I don't want the same life. Of course I don't want to be a single mom either. I love staying home with the girls. I am just torn. I want a real marriage. I want someone that will look me in the face and ask me how my day was. :(