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New to military life

Posted by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 2:00 AM
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Hello I am lindsey my husband is devin. We are both 18. My husband is a united states marine. He is my high school sweetheart. We got married when he came home from parris island on oct 13th. He left for MCT on oct 23rd. And on oct 26th I found out I was pregnant! And since my husband left before we could put our marriage certificate through the system our get a linked bank account he left me at home with no money, insurance, or contact with him. I suffered a miscarriage with our first child at 5 weeks. Since he isn't home to help me grieve or talk to, I have been bottling up my emotions and depressed all the time. I really need to vent to someone who has been in my situation before. It would be amazing if someone could inbox me our reply to this. I'm alone and need some emotional support.
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kris1stbaby
by Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 3:52 AM

I'm so sorry you have to go through that. Where is he now? Do you have family or friends that you can lean on?

LynSmith426
by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 9:46 AM
He is at camp lejeune for marine combat training. I do have friends and family but thry dont understand. They think im over reacting and tell me to suck it up and get over it
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Lizzys_mommy13
by Bronze Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 9:50 AM

I'm sorry hunny. Miscarriages are rough, especially when you have to handle them alone. I've been there. My husband (fiance at the time) deployed right before I found out I was pregnant with our first. I was military as well at the time, but a lot of my friends had just left so I was pretty much on my own when the miscarriage happened. The only ones that knew about it were medical and my chief. 
If you ever need anything hun, just send me a message.  

amonkeymom
by Member on Nov. 16, 2012 at 2:27 PM

Welcome to the group, though I'm so sorry for your loss. (((hug)))


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LynSmith426
by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 4:00 PM
thank you. I just hope my husband comes home soon
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blondie.mom
by Charity on Nov. 16, 2012 at 10:59 PM
Welcome, and good thoughts and well wishes to you in this difficult time
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edelweiss23
by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 11:01 PM
Welcome to the group!
I am so sorry you are going through this.
I suffered a mc during my husbands last deployment!
You can turn to most of us in here if you need an ear !
Hugs!
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chrlstoncharmed
by Melissa on Nov. 16, 2012 at 11:24 PM
Isn't MCT a month long? Didn't he tell you when he would be back?

Quoting LynSmith426:

thank you. I just hope my husband comes home soon
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LelaGoArmy
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 7:22 AM

Sooo sorry for your loss! You have to talk to someone. Even if you post on this site daily just to write what you're feeling. Quick notes about how you feel at that moment. I wish I could be of more help. 

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