Hello, My name is Ashlee. I'm engaged to my sweetheart of two years & I have a 16 month old from a previous relationship. My fiancé is signing up for the marines in January of this coming year & I'm very concerned and worried about how things will go beings that were planning on marrying after he returns from basics & my sons father is active in the my sons life. He gets him for one night every other weekend. The father & I do however have a good civil relationship although I'm very worried as to how he will take things if we were to get stationed out of state. I care about my son and his fathers relationship and my intentions aren't to hurt anyone. My fiancé has been there for me since the day I found out that I was pregnant and hasn't left my side ever since. He's a huge part in my sons life & does everything possible to make him happy. He accepts him as his own & to my son, my fiancé is indeed a father figure. My son loves my fiancé sooo much & the last thing I want to do is separate them. I'm so scared that when my fiancé gets stationed the court will make us stay behind- its the last thing I want for us. I want answers, help, advice, anything. I'm so worried about all this. I'm just looking for help, advice, anything. Thank you.
on Dec. 8, 2012 at 10:01 AM