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Posted by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 8:49 PM
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So im feeling more && more stressed my husband is in the army and he will be PCSing to Korea nxt weekend!! honeslty all i want to do iks cry!! im so stressed && just keep thinking im going to do this alone. hes going to be gone a whole year && may not come see the baby because he doesnt have n e leave time. I hate this && really dont want to be without him i cant even picture this. it makes me sick to my stomache i know i have to stay strong but 8m so sad and depressed i dont even know how to go about this. im more scared im going to hurt the baby by always crying over this but i cant just not cry. uggghhh

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hellomilla
by on Jan. 30, 2013 at 11:01 PM
You will get used to it. Cheer up, you have to stay strong for your husband and your child. What MOS is he?
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cocoroo
by Coco on Jan. 30, 2013 at 11:08 PM
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My dh went to Korea when I was 8 1/2 months pregnant with our 4th child.  Our son was 17 1/2 months old, our daughter was 4 1/2 and my son was 8.  My dh came home halfway through his time there.  He met our youngest when she was 7 months old, then he left again and came back around her 1st birthday.  I managed, so can you.  Just be strong and stop wallowing in self pity.

barrelracer1699
by Chel on Jan. 31, 2013 at 2:19 AM

 I have learned more about your life when your husband first joined this morning, than I knew with my whole time here!

OP I'm sorry I really have nothing!


Quoting cocoroo:

My dh went to Korea when I was 8 1/2 months pregnant with our 4th child.  Our son was 17 1/2 months old, our daughter was 4 1/2 and my son was 8.  My dh came home halfway through his time there.  He met our youngest when she was 7 months old, then he left again and came back around her 1st birthday.  I managed, so can you.  Just be strong and stop wallowing in self pity.


 

adrianna1043
by Adrianna on Jan. 31, 2013 at 2:33 AM
LOL I guess that's why she's become a bitter old alcoholic.

Quoting barrelracer1699:

 I have learned more about your life when your husband first joined this morning, than I knew with my whole time here!


OP I'm sorry I really have nothing!




Quoting cocoroo:


My dh went to Korea when I was 8 1/2 months pregnant with our 4th child.  Our son was 17 1/2 months old, our daughter was 4 1/2 and my son was 8.  My dh came home halfway through his time there.  He met our youngest when she was 7 months old, then he left again and came back around her 1st birthday.  I managed, so can you.  Just be strong and stop wallowing in self pity.




 

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barrelracer1699
by Chel on Jan. 31, 2013 at 2:35 AM

 Too much time with her husband gone?


Quoting adrianna1043:

LOL I guess that's why she's become a bitter old alcoholic.

Quoting barrelracer1699:

 I have learned more about your life when your husband first joined this morning, than I knew with my whole time here!


OP I'm sorry I really have nothing!


 


Quoting cocoroo:


My dh went to Korea when I was 8 1/2 months pregnant with our 4th child.  Our son was 17 1/2 months old, our daughter was 4 1/2 and my son was 8.  My dh came home halfway through his time there.  He met our youngest when she was 7 months old, then he left again and came back around her 1st birthday.  I managed, so can you.  Just be strong and stop wallowing in self pity.


 


 


 

adrianna1043
by Adrianna on Jan. 31, 2013 at 3:02 AM
No, I'm just kidding. I'm glad she shares her extensive experiences with the new ladies.

Quoting barrelracer1699:

 Too much time with her husband gone?




Quoting adrianna1043:

LOL I guess that's why she's become a bitter old alcoholic.


Quoting barrelracer1699:


 I have learned more about your life when your husband first joined this morning, than I knew with my whole time here!



OP I'm sorry I really have nothing!



 



Quoting cocoroo:



My dh went to Korea when I was 8 1/2 months pregnant with our 4th child.  Our son was 17 1/2 months old, our daughter was 4 1/2 and my son was 8.  My dh came home halfway through his time there.  He met our youngest when she was 7 months old, then he left again and came back around her 1st birthday.  I managed, so can you.  Just be strong and stop wallowing in self pity.



 



 




 

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barrelracer1699
by Chel on Jan. 31, 2013 at 3:06 AM

 I knew you were joking and so was I! Damn the whole typing and not getting sarcasm.


Quoting adrianna1043:

No, I'm just kidding. I'm glad she shares her extensive experiences with the new ladies.

Quoting barrelracer1699:

 Too much time with her husband gone?


 


Quoting adrianna1043:

LOL I guess that's why she's become a bitter old alcoholic.


Quoting barrelracer1699:


 I have learned more about your life when your husband first joined this morning, than I knew with my whole time here!



OP I'm sorry I really have nothing!



 



Quoting cocoroo:



My dh went to Korea when I was 8 1/2 months pregnant with our 4th child.  Our son was 17 1/2 months old, our daughter was 4 1/2 and my son was 8.  My dh came home halfway through his time there.  He met our youngest when she was 7 months old, then he left again and came back around her 1st birthday.  I managed, so can you.  Just be strong and stop wallowing in self pity.



 



 


 


 


 

cocoroo
by Coco on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:40 AM
And, there is much more I choose not to share.

Quoting barrelracer1699:

 I have learned more about your life when your husband first joined this morning, than I knew with my whole time here!


OP I'm sorry I really have nothing!




Quoting cocoroo:


My dh went to Korea when I was 8 1/2 months pregnant with our 4th child.  Our son was 17 1/2 months old, our daughter was 4 1/2 and my son was 8.  My dh came home halfway through his time there.  He met our youngest when she was 7 months old, then he left again and came back around her 1st birthday.  I managed, so can you.  Just be strong and stop wallowing in self pity.




 

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barrelracer1699
by Chel on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:43 AM

 As I am sure we all do!


Quoting cocoroo:

And, there is much more I choose not to share.

Quoting barrelracer1699:

 I have learned more about your life when your husband first joined this morning, than I knew with my whole time here!


OP I'm sorry I really have nothing!


 


Quoting cocoroo:


My dh went to Korea when I was 8 1/2 months pregnant with our 4th child.  Our son was 17 1/2 months old, our daughter was 4 1/2 and my son was 8.  My dh came home halfway through his time there.  He met our youngest when she was 7 months old, then he left again and came back around her 1st birthday.  I managed, so can you.  Just be strong and stop wallowing in self pity.


 


 


 

cocoroo
by Coco on Jan. 31, 2013 at 9:50 AM
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Just the smart ones, LOL.

Quoting barrelracer1699:

 As I am sure we all do!




Quoting cocoroo:

And, there is much more I choose not to share.


Quoting barrelracer1699:


 I have learned more about your life when your husband first joined this morning, than I knew with my whole time here!



OP I'm sorry I really have nothing!



 



Quoting cocoroo:



My dh went to Korea when I was 8 1/2 months pregnant with our 4th child.  Our son was 17 1/2 months old, our daughter was 4 1/2 and my son was 8.  My dh came home halfway through his time there.  He met our youngest when she was 7 months old, then he left again and came back around her 1st birthday.  I managed, so can you.  Just be strong and stop wallowing in self pity.



 



 




 

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