Where to begin......
ok, when I was 16 I got pregnant. Needless to say, he was not a good guy. Long sorry short, I got a restraining order on him. After I had my son i got sole and physical custody awarded. I let BD visit as much as he wanted but only made the effort about 5 times, I documented each visit. He was either drunk, or high, or not trying to interact with my DS. Well, BD went to jail 2x and then to prison. While BD was in prison I met an amazing man and we got married. We now have the complete perfect family with my DS and my DD. Well, my sister called me this morning saying she ran into BD's mom at wall mart. From what my sister explained she was high or something. My sister then goes on to tell me that BD gets out of prison next month, and he wants to take parenting classes and all this stuff.
Because I have temporary sole and physical custody of my DS how hard will it be, if hard at all, to get permanent custody and then do an adoption process for DH? Would you suggest hiring a lawyer? Anyone been in this kind of situation before? Me and DH are not in the same state as BD, because DH is military.
idk if this also helps... But BD is also a skinhead and has told me and written me letters how he wants to have my DS adopt these values. BD is tattooed from head to toe with Skinhead ideology. This could be deemed as an unfit parent, correct?