DH just called. He said about 7 guys from the unit got an email making sure their spouses email was correct because they have not participated in any of the events/socials. I don't want to participate in anything. I have plenty of things to do here at home and quite frankly I would rather gouge my eyes out then to go to any of these 'socials' Guess I am feeling bad for dh because he got this email. I dont want to make him look bad at work but ugh. I am just not into it, never was.
*edit. They have my correct info, I decline the events by the rsvp date like you are supposed to.