Recently after a friend of mine and I had been texting back and forth she told me that he took her phone and read all of our conversations. Although I didn't write anything "bad" there are some things that I might say to a girlfriend that I wouldn't neseccarily want DH's whole squadron to hear about (our DHs work together). I tend to joke around a lot and it could be taken the wrong way. I mean there is nothing I can do except watch closing what I text to her but just wondering if this is the norm. My DH and I never check each others phones.