So my friends and i joke around about this life. "The army is his wife and i am his dirty mistress" and then now I have two sides of me. I have the "I married my love" side that hates deployments and feild (especially when it involves marching 10miles in the pouring rain and sleeping on muddy ground, which is what they do i know) and then I have the side if me that is married to the soldier. The side that knows how to carry one while hes gone and who is independent. Now most of you dont know me so you dont understand my personality, but I was wondering if anyone else has a joke amongst friends that help releive the stress involved of worrying for your loved one?