So my DF is going through the final steps of processing for enlisting in the Army right now and we just found out that I'm pregnant again due on march 14th. He doesn't even want to acknowledge that I exist let alone tell them that Im pregnant with his child to the Army because he says that if they knew he's having another child they wouldn't let him leave. I want to be legally married when he leaves so that when the time comes DD and I can move with him. He says he won't do it because that's another thing that could ruin his one chance of enlisting without having to retake the ASVAB (he's already taken it several times). Anyone know if us being married or my pregnancy would actually make a difference in him being able to leave? I was AD Army once and I met a few soldiers while in basic training who were married and had a child on the way back home so Im not sure if the Army has changed something and he really wouldn't be able to leave or if he's just being paranoid and kinda selfish to only be thinking about what he wants and not whats best for our whole family.