So I came home from work one day, I saw a papa john's pizza box on the coffee table, I go and open the box. One pizza slice was left and the yellow pepper and butter that comes with it was eaten. I said to the husband, "you ordered pizza, I thought you didn't like the butter and pepper(he never eats it when we order)"...and he goes"oh I ate it this time". So I went and showered.
When I came back out I wanted to eat the left over slice. Then I noticed a hair tie on the table that clearly is not mine. Then I also notice my Rockband game was out and went to the bedroom and asked the husband why he had girls over. He said "oh I asked the girls from my squad to dropped by since they were out shopping". I go "why do you have to ask them? You never ask anyone to come over(his guy friends come on their own free will)". Then I go "why do have do lie about eating the pepper and butter from the pizza, you never eat them. You could've just let me know you're inviting your girl coworkers over."... I got annoyed and left it at that, it just felt so wrong..
Later I also found out he was buying one of his coworker lunch all the time when they go out. Because there would always be a large charged on our account when he goes to mcdonalds or whatever. I confronted him and go "why do you have to buy her lunch all the time, you guys make the same,she has her own money"... he goes "oh she is broke cause she sends her son money"...
Okay, I brush that off. Whatever.
Then we go to a going away party for one of his guy friend. And one of his girl coworker was there. The whole time he was just teasing her and her teasing him back. He would go "you suck at this game..blah blah blah". And he says nothing to me the whole party. Before we left he lightly punch her on the shoulder. And they exchange goodbyes.
One time husband came home and quickly ate the cupcakes his girl coworker gave him. And threw it in the trash. I asked him "you never eat the sweets I make you(brownies,cupcakes,etc, and I'm not a bad cook either), oh did your girl coworker make them especially for you?"... he got mad and didn't want to talk..
What do you guys think if that was your husband?