My husband is coming home the day (morning) after my brothers wedding. Its a 5 hour drove one way so I decided not to go to the wedding. My brother seems sad about it, but understanding. Our mom on the other hand is blowing this way up. At every turn she is trying to guilt trip me into going. Which would be putting not only myself but my kids under stress of driving down there, doing the wedding and pictures and stuff then driving 5 hours back here the same night to make sure we are here and ready for dh to come home. I would go a day earlier but its in an area where our families only option is to stay in a hotel and I just can't afford that with all the other extras we have for this next pay period. My mom has gone from guilt tripping to being just a bitch about it.
Am I right here about not going or am I being selfish?
on Sep. 28, 2013 at 4:19 PM