Hugs! How long has he been gone? Coming home any time soon?
I know it's hard; just do your best to stay busy and stay positive.
I don't understand this mentality, but I guess I'll say I'm sorry and I hope you feel better.
I revel in my alone time, I embrace deployments. Actually, I look forward to them. I don't have to share the tv, the blankets magically all stay on my side of the bed, and I get to make whatever I want for dinner. I think it's GLORIOUS.
Mines been gone since Nov 16 but knowing he is adjusting well me gives me piece of mind!
:-( It sucks. It does. I am lucky to have my kids with me to occupy my mind and snuggle on. I miss him so much, sometimes more than other days. Sometimes so much I just want to lay in bed all day and daydream that he is there with me. Hang in there. We are currently experiencing our first deployment. I try to just distract myself the best I can.
Thanksgiving at his parents was hard b/c he proposed to me there years ago and always goes with me. I took pictures like crazy and fb messaged them to him.
Yeah - what they said. Try to keep it together as best as you can. The last thing he needs to worry about (although he will anyway) is you breaking down and think you're not able to live your life without him there. Good luck...
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