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Kids prior to marriage?

Posted by on Dec. 2, 2013 at 7:45 PM
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okay so, My fiance has decided that he wants to join the military. I have a son from a previous relationship. My ex doesn't pay child support nor does he have a job& he has two kids. (Idk if that matters) But my question is, When my fiance get stationed, Can we go with him or can my ex stop us? I'm really worried about this.

by on Dec. 2, 2013 at 7:45 PM
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mrsary
by Bronze Member on Dec. 2, 2013 at 7:48 PM
You have to be married.
YoungandBlessed
by on Dec. 2, 2013 at 7:50 PM

We plan on getting married before he leaves for training.

RhondaJ
by on Dec. 2, 2013 at 7:59 PM

If you are married I am not sure he can do much about.  I had my kids from a previous marriage and they are with me.

TonyaLea
by Silver Member on Dec. 2, 2013 at 8:07 PM
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It depends on your ex and your custody agreement.  There are a couple moms in here who are stuck in the same state as their ex because they (the bio dad's) had 50/50 custody and fought them on being able to leave with their new husbands. 

.oOMellyOo.
by Silver Member on Dec. 2, 2013 at 8:58 PM

It all depends on your custody agreement. 

Quoting RhondaJ:

If you are married I am not sure he can do much about.  I had my kids from a previous marriage and they are with me.


usmclife58
by Nikki on Dec. 2, 2013 at 9:09 PM

Yes, your ex can take you to court and keep you from moving.

MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Dec. 2, 2013 at 9:39 PM

 It will depend on if your ex fights you on moving first (he may not), and then it depends on if a judge will allow it after hearing both sides.

YoungandBlessed
by on Dec. 2, 2013 at 9:56 PM
My ex sees our son every other weekend.
darbyakeep45
by Darby on Dec. 3, 2013 at 6:09 AM

No experience with this but good luck!

gunsgirl
by Silver Member on Dec. 3, 2013 at 6:23 AM
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yes he can stop you from moving out of not only the state but the area you currently live.

everything wll depend on your custody agreement.

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