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Anonymous
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My fiancee is on deployment right the hardest thing for me is not being able to have him next me and not having him here for Christmas anyone have any advice I cry everyday it is so hard
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 23, 2013 at 4:25 AM
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darbyakeep45
by Darby on Dec. 23, 2013 at 4:28 AM

Hugs mama!  Is this your first deployment with your fiance'?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 23, 2013 at 4:32 AM
Yes it is and it is so hard he has been gone for 8 months
darbyakeep45
by Darby on Dec. 23, 2013 at 4:35 AM

I'm sorry.  Do you have family and friends to help and support you during the remaining time?

Quoting Anonymous: Yes it is and it is so hard he has been gone for 8 months


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 23, 2013 at 4:36 AM
No not really
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 23, 2013 at 4:38 AM
Am pretty much on my own with my daughter
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 23, 2013 at 4:43 AM
How do u get through the holidays without ur significant other home with u
anchorgurl
by Silver Member on Dec. 23, 2013 at 6:24 AM

 You keep yourself busy and make your holiday a good one.  It's better for him if he's not worrying that you are at home crying all day.  Give your daughter a nice holiday and you will have one, too.

 

barrelracer1699
by Chel on Dec. 23, 2013 at 7:02 AM

You pick yourself up, if anything for your daughter, and carry on with your life. Life doesn't stop because your SO isn't home! You have to keep yourself busy. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 23, 2013 at 9:59 AM
I try the only thing keeping going right now is my daughter does it ever get easier
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 23, 2013 at 10:04 AM

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The other hard thing bout it all is that am very ill right now it hard to have to go through all the drs appts and stuff alone
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