I just kept myself busy. Good luck!
I use my two feet and get involved with things in my life. I do not dwell on the fact he is not there as nothing productive comes of it.
Try and keep yourself busy. It will make the days go by so much more quickly.
Just stay busy. I was 5 months pregnant when my dh went to basic (not a deployment, but he was gone, I was pregnant and living 800 miles from any family). I became active in my church, I joined play groups for my dd who was 2 at the time, we went to the mall just to have something to do, story time at the library. We did anything to pass the time. As far as the deployment goes, don't think about the negatives. Don't live through every what if. Just keep positive and keep going.
Quoting nessab123: Thanx everyone for replying I think since I'm pregnant I'm more emotional n feel so many things but I'm trying to hang n there n find others around me to n find stuff to do so will c how that goes
Welcome! These ladies have great advice. Find something that you enjoy doing and use it to fill your time. Good luck!
I found out a week after dh left that I was pregnant. I understand emotional :) Get out as much as you can - even if to just go for a walk. Ok, realizing the weather is insane in some places...take a walk at the mall. The more you focus on yourself in the present, the less you are to think too much about him being gone.
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