I need some advice. My boyfriend asked me to marry him. Said yes. Was going to do it in July but his unit is deploying so doing it Feb 15. Anyway, hes a bit younger then me and no kids.
The commander for his unit told him he better not b/c of the age gap and then implied I was only wanting to marry him for military benefits. The commander said he was gonna personally stop it. IDK how or if he can. I dont want J to be in trouble and/or be harassed about it.
They dont even know me and say Im bad for him. Were going to be living on base and if the entire unit doesnt go Im slightly worried that my son or I will be harassed.
J has been calming me down when I start to think maybe hes gonna listen to those guys. I trust his word and that he wants to marry me very badly, but I cant get the sick feeling out of my stomach.
So basically can the commander stop it from happening?
He asked me out of the blue and surprised me. I never have brought it up with him, so its not like I put pressure on like some folks do.