I don't have the energy or emotions to get into many details right now, but it looks like DH's desire to drink is stronger than his desire to stay married to his five months pregnant wife. We have been married for only two years so I know the rules about spouse financial protection don't apply to me.
Does anyone know:
1. If we get a legal separation, can I still live in the off-base house we share and pay for with BAH?
2. If we get a divorce and we have a baby, does he get dependent pay for that child if he is the non-custodial parent?
3. If we are divorced does the child stay on Tricare if needed?
4. Any other important things I should know about?