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Is your family complete?

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Yesterday was my sisters 36th birhtday. At  dinner she announced that my BIL and her were going to begin the adoption process. They have 3 children. Two teenagers and an 8 year old. Needless to say, it came as a bit of a shock to the rest of the family, as she has never indicated that she wanted to adopt.

After her youngest was born, they believed their family was complete and took permanent birth control measures. Now 8 years later, they are finding that they want another child. She says that they have been discussing and researching adoption for the last couple of years and would like to adopt a child around elementary school age. I am really excited for them as they start this new journey in life.

After dinner my DH and I were talking about it, he asked if I ever thought about having another child. I told him that when our son was born almost 10 years ago, I was worried about the significant age gap between my older children and the baby, and wondered if perhaps it was selfish to have him essentially grow up alone without a sibling closer to his own age. Needless to say, I got over it pretty quickly. I knew in my heart after he was born that our family was complete, it just took a little bit for my head to realize it too. 

Is your family complete? Do you ever find yourself wanting to have another child? Are you going to have or adopt another child?

by on Mar. 17, 2014 at 9:01 AM
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by Darby on Mar. 17, 2014 at 5:57 PM

We only have one child.  Our family is more than complete just the way it is:)

by Bronze Member on Mar. 17, 2014 at 6:35 PM

As far as having another child, yes I am done.  I also get that craving for a new little one, I have 3 girls and 3 step daughters one that lives with us and sometimes I feel that  would like to have a little boy:) 

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