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Beyond Frustrated...

Posted by on Apr. 9, 2014 at 5:26 PM
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This hasn't sat well with me. My husbands COC has known what has been going on between us. A few days ago before he was chaptered his NCO called me and asked me if he could come over. Now this mean has pulled a knife on me and my kids, beat me and dislocated my shoulder. It bothers me that he even asked. Are they allowed to do that type stuff?

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jas_momof2
by アニメの雌犬 on Apr. 9, 2014 at 5:29 PM

The NCO wanted to come over or the NCO called and asked if your ex could come over?

mrsary
by Bronze Member on Apr. 9, 2014 at 5:31 PM
Holy shit! Its not right but was he always abusive?
jtsmommie0104
by Member on Apr. 9, 2014 at 5:31 PM

He called and asked if my ex could come over.

Quoting jas_momof2:

The NCO wanted to come over or the NCO called and asked if your ex could come over?


jtsmommie0104
by Member on Apr. 9, 2014 at 5:33 PM

After I had my youngest he tried to sell him and then he flipped out when I confronted him and it went downhill from there. 

Quoting mrsary: Holy shit! Its not right but was he always abusive?


jas_momof2
by アニメの雌犬 on Apr. 9, 2014 at 5:34 PM
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Wow...  Did you asked him what he was thinking?  It might be that your ex has him snowed to believe things are not as bad as you (and the police) are making it out to be.  Obviously he's wrong, but I have no idea why the NCO would do that.

Quoting jtsmommie0104:

He called and asked if my ex could come over.

Quoting jas_momof2:

The NCO wanted to come over or the NCO called and asked if your ex could come over?



mrsary
by Bronze Member on Apr. 9, 2014 at 5:34 PM
Sell him to who though?

Quoting jtsmommie0104:

After I had my youngest he tried to sell him and then he flipped out when I confronted him and it went downhill from there. 

Quoting mrsary: Holy shit! Its not right but was he always abusive?

jtsmommie0104
by Member on Apr. 9, 2014 at 6:25 PM

I was so angry it pissed me of. The tone of his voice when I said no made me want to break my phone in half (figuratively)

Quoting jas_momof2:

Wow...  Did you asked him what he was thinking?  It might be that your ex has him snowed to believe things are not as bad as you (and the police) are making it out to be.  Obviously he's wrong, but I have no idea why the NCO would do that.

Quoting jtsmommie0104:

He called and asked if my ex could come over.

Quoting jas_momof2:

The NCO wanted to come over or the NCO called and asked if your ex could come over?


jtsmommie0104
by Member on Apr. 9, 2014 at 6:26 PM

Some guy on CL, that's a whole different story. He has become a hot mess. IDK what is running through his mind honestly. 

Quoting mrsary: Sell him to who though?
Quoting jtsmommie0104:

After I had my youngest he tried to sell him and then he flipped out when I confronted him and it went downhill from there. 

Quoting mrsary: Holy shit! Its not right but was he always abusive?


MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Apr. 9, 2014 at 7:00 PM

 Why did he want your husband to come over??  Come over for what?

darbyakeep45
by Darby on Apr. 9, 2014 at 8:27 PM

This.

Quoting MrsDavidB25:

 Why did he want your husband to come over??  Come over for what?


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