I grew up army. I am nervous. Right now we are both working. I work in a different city and dd starts kindergarten this year. It will be a huge pay cut for us right now. However, he has been wanting this since he was a very very very long time. I am 25 and dh is 26 we have a 5 year old and 3 year old. Our youngest is severly asthmatic. I am nervous about the paycut, I am nervous about moving. I am nervous for him to be gone. Not so much to be away from family. My family didn't even speak to me for 2 years. Advice is appreciated.