But I am not sure what to say to my friend. She is contemplating divorce (long story). She was wondering if she should file papers where she currently lives, or go back to her home state, about 17 hours away and file there? She has a child and is pregnant with their second, so obviously it could be a long process with child custody arrangements. They have a lot of things and she doesn't want to lose her stuff if she goes. They are also scheduled to PCS next April, and she doesn't want to have to move, but then travel back to the current state for more hearings. Anyone gone through, or know someone who has gone through this? Thanks in advance for the advice.