Dh and I have been having big issues this month. 98% of it revolves around a game he has been playing. Since July 1st he has spent $1600 on it. Tonight we got into a huge fight because I just found out about $1k of that. A friend suggested going to his coc. Normally that is not something I'd even consider doing, and I'm guessing this isn't something they'd step in on at all. Idk where to go from this point OE what to do about any of it.
Other than leaving.... Are there other options and such? :/
I DID NOT say I would go to his coc, boss, whatever. But I was asking who else I can discuss this with for advice on the situation, for example (as someone suggested) talking to finance.
I can't cancel a credit card I am not on just as I can not report it lost, you cant block purchases on a prepaid phone, his wallet and phone were glued to his side last week even while he slept (but with a phone lock and card info saved neither would do me good.) He did turn the credit card over Thursday but it did nothing since it was all saved. There are no finances to separate. His parents talked to him last week but it didn't help, I tried talking to him on and off Thursday Friday and Saturday. Saturday night. Something I said made him realize I really was laying out plans to leave him the cards were deleted and the last purchase he made on the game was 6 pm Saturday. Hes on his own to figure out how to replace the money and how to get to and from work, he only has 1 debit card left for his gas, and the rest along with credit card are locked up hidden from him after he handed those over as well.
Yes he was able/allowed to spend some money on himself before but no where near the amount he ended up dumping into this game. Especially when at this point its added up to more than a months worth of bills. We discussed finances Sunday night. We've also discussed everything else basically. I never said I was going to talk to someone above him and cause issues at work for him, but I did want to see what options there were as far as who I COULD talk to for advice on handling the situation. Thankfully it hasn't come to that, if it starts back up I'll be talking to someone.