I know this stupid, but why does cleaning up my son's room remain on my to do list? He left for his assignment in March to Louisiana (Barksdale AFB) with his new wife (He's 19) but didn't clean up his room. Now it's my job, but everything means something to me. His piano trophies, his lego creations, books, almost everything has a connection. What do I toss What do I keep? Why am I stalling?