I just wanted to let everyone know my wife and I took a major step forward for us. We have changed our gender markers on our driver's licenses. So I am legally male now and she is legally female. It is great. Our next step is starting hormones and changing names. Our PCP is looking into helping us find an endo to work with us. And we just have to save up for the name change because it can easily cost $200 for each of us.