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Some resources in the "Williamsport" area.
I will Travel here as well if no other homebirth midwife options are found. I travel up to two hours away for births. My office is in Long Pond Pa.
Jen, Homebirth midwife,Mother to five, wife to one amazing man. http://www.mybirthbydesign.com/
Quoting MountainMidwife:I will Travel here as well if no other homebirth midwife options are found. I travel up to two hours away for births. My office is in Long Pond Pa.
Hi!
I have been putting feelers out for a midwife for a couple weeks now, and I may have even contacted you directly (I can't remember at this point, as I have sent out numerous emails and have started contacting people that have been recommended). I have definitely been to your website, though, as Long Pond, PA definitely rings a bell!
I'm becoming increasingly frustrated that Pennsylvania is loaded with
excellent midwives who attend HBACs, but none of them seems to serve in my area.
It's
not even that I want a homebirth. It's an undisturbed,
out-of-hospital birth that I'm after, and I'm perfectly willing to
travel to a hotel that would be a reasonable distance for both me and
the midwife, provided emergency services were also nearby in the
unlikely event they would be needed. In fact, that would even be
preferable. I wouldn't feel comfortable giving birth with my parents
around (I would be
staying at their house). They would inject too much fear into the
environment, and that is the last thing I need.
I was thinking of
traveling to Lewisburg (ideal) or Danville, but Williamsport would be another possibility, as would Bloomsburg. I know there are hospitals in these places in case they are needed.
All are within a 40 minute drive of my parents' house, and I really wouldn't feel comfortable traveling any further than that while in labor. I'm hoping one of these cities would be an acceptable location for a hands-off midwife who attends HBACs, but I'm becoming discouraged with all of the negative replies I'm receiving.
This was my original message that I sent to the leaders of all PA ICAN chapters:
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Dear ICAN Leaders,
I am hoping you can point me in the
direction of midwives and doulas who might be a good match for me. I am
originally from central PA, but I teach overseas. I had a horrible
birth experience abroad with my first that resulted in a very
unnecessary, traumatic cesarean. I have been working through the trauma
and depression for the past two and half years and feel like I have
come to terms with what happened. However, I wish to do everything
within my power to avoid a scenario that even remotely resembles the
first birth experience I had. I am very newly pregnant (5 weeks
tomorrow!), and barring any issues with the placenta's location, it
looks like I will be traveling to the States to have this baby (EDD
September 9).
My foreign insurance would not even come close
to covering the cost of a vaginal or cesarean birth in an American
hospital, so if a hospital transfer is TRULY necessary, I will be paying
out of pocket. That's a risk I'm willing to take, but I'm worried
about hiring a midwife and then being scared or bullied into a hospital
transfer for a reason that does not truly warrant medical attention. I
am well aware that many midwives transfer care based on protocol alone
and not on genuine need (i.e. merely going 42 weeks + 1 day, baby being
in a breech position, however favorable it may be, and other situations
that are simply a variation of normal). I don't want my birth to be
hindered by a midwife who fears anything that veers beyond a textbook
labor and birth yet is still within the scope of normal.
I want
to hire a midwife who trusts birth, understands all of the variations
of normal, and makes decisions to transfer to a hospital based on true
medical necessity, not due to the presence of a single "risk factor"
without any actual evidence of danger to the mother or baby. I want to
hire a midwife who fully shares my philosophy of hands-off, unhindered
birth so that IF she feels a hospital transfer is necessary, I would
feel comfortable with her judgment and not second guess her decision.
I am seeking a midwife and a doula who serve in central Pennsylvania,
approximately halfway between Williamsport and Harrisburg
(Northumberland, Sunbury, Lewisburg, Danville area). I would
specifically like to find a midwife who does not perform routine vaginal
exams, believes in a woman's ability to have a successful HBAC whether
she is 100 or 300 pounds, whether she births at 37 or 43 weeks, whether
baby is head-down or breech, and, in the absence of any signs of
infection, will not put a time limit on laboring with ruptured
membranes. None of these things in and of themselves warrants a
hospital transfer, and I need a midwife who agrees. I need a midwife
who would be okay with an older sibling being present at the birth. I
need a midwife who believes in me and will respect me and my birthing
space. I need a midwife I can feel safe with. I need a midwife whose
judgment I can trust.
If you can recommend some midwives and doulas who might be a good fit, I would be extremely grateful.
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As I'm sure you can imagine, I don't want to travel halfway around the world to end up with a midwife who practices out of fear of litigation instead of sound judgment, which is why, in my original email message, I specified so many variables that in and of themselves do not warrant a hospital transfer. I'm not all about homebirth-or-die, but I am all about being respected and not being jerked around by the system. I just want to be supported emotionally, left undisturbed if I so desire, and intervention applied only if absolutely necessary.
If you think we might be a good fit for one another or if you can recommend a midwife who is, I would be very appreciative.


- Ossom
on Jan. 26, 2010 at 9:48 PM